Everything Must Come To Pass!

Things that matter aren’t always the ones that make sense. Feelings. Feeling that I can’t control. Feelings that we can’t control. Reality, logic, they become things that are irrelevant. Promise is better than disappointment! Hope is bigger than a broken heart. So we love again no matter how hurt we have been. Even though we swear we rather dig our own grave before we do, we do love again. Because no matter what we do, we can’t deny what the heart wants. All it takes is a little smile. A kiss. A dance. A glance. Life you had known would come to an end. We do things so out of ordinary for the people we love they almost seem wrong. Insane.

The thing about loving someone too much is, you don’t know when to stop. We love til it hurts. We love til there’s nothing more to give. But the thing about loving someone that much is then you become invisible to them and they start thinking love like that happens to everybody! It gets trickier when everybody else love them for what they appear to be. It’s hard making them believe we see pass that! How can you love someone that constantly keep pushing you away? What do you do when you love someone and you clearly have artistic differences, such as you’re madly in love and they are not so sure? Someone once told me only cure to missing someone is to reach out to them. But then I got to thinking, is it better to miss someone than to actually be their fool?

The things is nomatter how much u love someone, you can’t love for two, forever. Eventually you get over them. Specially when you love them too much. Trust me I would know. You don’t know until one day you wake up and forget to think of them every minute. Just like when u fall in love without a notice. When you eventually gets over someone you realize sometimes the only reason we keep loving someone is because we hate to disappoint ourselves. Not they give you much reasons while we keep feeding their ego. There’s a fine line between high hopes and false hopes. Most of the time we hang on not because we know they will come true but because we hate to wake up one day and think we gave up too soon. Real love takes two. Though the hard way I learnt that if its love, you don’t have to fight. You don’t have to wait for years and years. You don’t have to pray for a miracle. Anybody who has second thoughts about you should be sent their way. And that’s what we find the hardest to do. I believe I know a douche when I fall in love with one!

Getting over someone is not easy. You can’t set dates, it’s a terrible New Year resolution. It takes a lot of re-runs of sex and the city, a lot of time, help from friends, pain, heartache and low self esteem to finally see the truth that hey are willing to give some stranger what you’ve been asking for all your life. We have to tell ourselves what we deserve. Sometimes it’s goodbye. I’ve heard that good things fall apart so better things can come together. I can’t agree more. The girl who offered you a ride on a rainy evening after college could end up being your best friend, random person u smile with every morning could save u from detention and the stranger you dance with might actually end up... making u smile. Life is full of surprises and every moment is a choice but sometimes we let good things pass us by in a moment while we live afraid losing what we have already lost.

The thing is, sometimes things happen when we least expect them. Taylor Swift wins album of the year, people walk back into your life and it rains even when there are stars out in the sky. Optimism is good. Hope is wonderful. Love is crazy amazing. But not everything works out. Some people will never see the light in your eyes or their reflection in your tears. Maybe I should give up hope that Jen and Brad will get back together.some fairy tales have a twist! I guess somedays you've got to take another bite of the apple and go back to sleep. Maybe you'll wake up to find happy ever after, Tomorrow!

" baby, don't you break my heart slow... "