Things That Get Us Laid, Don't Get Us Love!

So true love... Why is it so hard to believe that somewhere, someone is there for us? Someone perfect. Now perfection is not created or made, it’s there even in the most awful flaws. Call it love. They say if you love some let them go, if they come back, it’s yours. But I refuse. I deny. I think if you love someone you should let them go only because if they really love you they’ll never let go. Because once you love someone there’s no ending to it. The only reasons to be with someone should be the simple fact that you can’t imagine life without them. Like they say, love someone not because you can be with them but because you can’t be without them. So they say, you should never let somebody miss you so much that they will actually learn how to be without you.

Loving takes time. Loving takes effort. So if you’re tired come over, lie down on my lap and we’ll watch movies together, or just lie down, damn it. What’s love if you just want to shut out? ‘Cos I want somebody who’d go the extra mile. Someone who knows what I want. Anybody can buy you a diamond ring but everybody can’t give you butterflies. Not everybody bothers walking you home on a rainy night after a date. Not everybody remembers a hug before leaving the room. Those are the little things that count. Those are the little things that make the big pictures. Those are the little things that screw you up while you lie down trying to let go. Those are the little things that matter the most. Sometimes when it comes to love maybe it’s not so bad that material things define love. Cos there are guys like me who counts every kiss, every text, every call, and every moment together that makes it so hard to deliver. Cos some of us are looking for that dancing in the rain, I’m crazy for you, here’s my heart it’s for you kindda love. .. Cos I’m a kindda guy who’d sit by the window, day after say clutching on my coffee ‘til you come back. That’s happiness to me.

Sometimes happiness is just getting use to the pain. Lady antebellum says “I rather hurt than feel nothing at all” I say “a beautiful song but the bitch is crazy.” I don’t think anyone felt that way since the invention of one night stands and free hugs day. Love is supposed to make you happy. Give you a reason to smile... when it doesn’t, it’s not always easy letting go. Two amazing people can’t always work things. An asshole shouldn’t define love for you. Don’t let anybody push you around or take you for granted. Don’t flatter yourself and think I give a damn; you must have mistaken me for somebody else. Somebody more like you, like what you try to make of me with a shield and no self-respect. Thing about shields is, when you have one, you think everybody else has one too. It’s just yours reflecting on them. We all know life the way we live it. A cheater thinks everybody else cheats, a whore thinks everybody whores, a lover think everybody loves, Not the case. So next time before you speak, think! ‘cos most of the time it’s you, not me.

There are important things in life. Work. Money. Fame but then you have to ask the question is it all worth it if you don’t have someone by your side? Someone who’d care for you and be there for you even when you don’t have much going on. Just you and me. Someone who might not have the world to give but who’d give everything he has. Ambitious is good but I guess love is better! There are no guarantees in life, it’s always a risk. Things that get us laid don’t get us love. Things that get us laid only makes it that much harder and confusing. When you’re good looking, at a certain point in your life, successful, recognizable or married. And sometimes we lose our way. Maybe that’s why sometimes we must just close our eyes and feel the touch. The honesty that can’t be told but can be only felt. When everyone might love you for what they see, I love you for what they can’t see. Cos in the end when the lights go off and its just two people all that matters is what two people share. All the false alarms, they can just shut it. But the thing is they always wake us up and you’ll lie down awake for the rest of your life an its sad when we can’t save people we love from making those mistakes when they are blinded by everything else that they have got going on.

So the thing is as long as you give in you’re the nice person, the moment you disagree you are wrong. Not everybody has to be a Harvey milk. Not everybody has to sacrifice their life to change the world. Sometimes it’s the little things you do that makes the whole difference. Just be yourself, that someone can look at you and see themselves to know that it’s ok to be who you are. To know that there’s someone who understands them, some one who won't judge them. Who knows, you might be saving a life. In silence! We have to live life by our rules. Thing is just because some people are willing to stick by people who treat them like stone and under appreciate them and show no respect doesn’t mean you have to be one of them because if you make a mistake you must say sorry, when someone is nice to you must appreciate it. You can’t always screw up, disappoint and go on like nothing is wrong. Because life is like that, we all should know what we deserve in life and if you feel under-appreciated an unhappy, slap yourself and get with it. If you fall short of giving yourself what you deserve, no one would. So keep them who make you happy closer and set apart from those who bring you down. Smile, feel, hope and believe in love.